What to write in a card

Pick the occasion, choose a tone and copy a message that sounds like you. Every one of the 184 messages was written for this site, and you can add names and a sign-off as you copy.

Occasion
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Add names and a sign-off when you copy

14 birthday messages

Birthday

  • Happy birthday! I hope this year brings you as much joy as you bring everyone lucky enough to know you.

    Warm
  • Wishing you a birthday full of the people and things you love most, and a year ahead that's even better than the last.

    Warm
  • Another year of you is something worth celebrating. Thank you for being exactly who you are. Have the loveliest day.

    Warm
  • Happy birthday to someone who makes ordinary days feel like occasions. I hope today returns the favour.

    Warm
  • Happy birthday! Don't think of it as getting older. Think of it as becoming a collector's edition.

    Funny
  • They say age is just a number. In your case it's a fairly big number, but still just a number. Happy birthday!

    Funny
  • I wanted to get you something you've always wanted, but the shop was fresh out of extra hours in the day. Happy birthday!

    Funny
  • Cake today, regrets tomorrow. That's the birthday rule, and I expect you to follow it to the crumb.

    Funny
  • Warmest wishes on your birthday. May the year ahead bring good health, happiness and continued success.

    Formal
  • Wishing you a very happy birthday and every good thing in the year to come.

    Formal
  • With best wishes for a wonderful birthday from all of us on the team.

    Formal
  • Happy birthday! Have a brilliant day.

    Short
  • Here's to you, today and every day.

    Short
  • Cake, candles and all the best. Happy birthday!

    Short

How to use the message ideas

Choose an occasion, then narrow it down by tone: warm for close friends and family, funny for people who share your sense of humour, formal for colleagues, clients and people you know less well, and short when the card has little room or you plan to add a line of your own. Search looks through every message, so try a word such as "team", "proud" or "cake".

Copy puts the message on your clipboard. Open Add names and a sign-off to have "Dear Sam," and your sign-off and name added around it. Those names stay in your browser's local storage on this device only.

Making a message your own

A borrowed sentence works best as a starting point. Add one specific detail: a shared memory, the name of the new baby, the thing you will miss about a colleague. For sympathy cards, simple and sincere is kinder than clever, which is why there are no jokes in that section; naming the person who died and offering one concrete kind of help (a meal, a lift, a walk) means a great deal. If you need a thank-you note rather than a one-liner, the thank-you note builder writes a full note from a few details.

More from the writing desk

Once your words are ready, these help you get them onto paper and into the post.

Questions

Can I use these messages in cards I sell or publish?

They are here for your own cards and notes. Use them freely in cards you send; for anything you plan to publish or sell, please write your own wording.

What should I write in a sympathy card?

Keep it short and honest: say you are sorry, share a memory if you have one, and offer specific help. Avoid explaining the loss or saying you know how they feel.

How do I sign a card from a couple or family?

List the names, usually with the person closest to the recipient first: "Love, Ana and Leo". Type them in the From field and they are added when you copy.